Enjoy these tried and tested resources organised by your child’s age…

For parents of 0-4 year olds

 

This short video with a catchy tune is perfect for you and your toddler to learn how to keep their bodies safe.

Mobile app - Google Play and iOS

Amazon Alexa smart speaker skill. Just say “Alexa open NSPCC” or “Alexa ask NSPCC to play the pants song”

This book is a great place to start to introduce you and your little one to the concept of permission based touch, personal boundaries, consent and respect.

This book is a great place to start to introduce you and your little one to the concept of permission based touch, personal boundaries, consent and respect.

A bed time hack to introduce your kids to consent, body autonomy and safe touch.

For parents of 5-7 year olds

 

This book teaches young children about body boundaries, both theirs and others, their confidence and how they should expect to be treated by others

An inspirational 6 minutes TED Talk by Adie Delaney teaching children about the importance of listening to their body signals and trusting them. A vital watch for you and your children when talking about consent

Print your My Body Safety Rules Poster for your kids

For parents of 8-12 year olds

 

Teach your tween about how to keep their bodies safe. The Book or Activity book has great tools for your kids to practise to be loud and proud and for example identify 5 adults they trust to go to if their bodies are ever touched in a way that makes them feel unsafe.

Share this book with your tween for them to learn about their bodies, how babies are made, sex, menstruation, masturbation and more!

Get ready for your tween to feel empowered with having real knowledge at their fingertips. This book says 10+ but use your own knowledge of your child to decide when is the right time to introduce these concepts. Some kids it’s younger, some it’s older.

Trigger warning This episode is full on and contains a conversation that you may find intense. Discussion covers online grooming and sexual abuse.

Available on Spotify, Apple, Google podcast

For parents of 12+ year olds

How to have the sex vs porn talk with your daughter.
This kiwi Dad is awesome. He keeps it real, short, and is a wonderful combination of serious and fun.

How to have the conversation about porn with your son.

This kiwi Dad is awesome. He keeps it real, short, and is a wonderful combination of serious and fun.

If your child has viewed pornography and has had the courage to come to you and tell you, follow this checklist to respond mindfully and appropriately.

And here are even more LECTURES, TALKS and ORGANISATIONS we have found who are doing epic work in this space and who we couldn’t WAIT to share with you…

A UK based organisation supporting schools to provide age-appropriate, inclusive, trauma-informed relationships and sex education programmes that are LGBTQIA+ inclusive.

This 45 min presentation explores what parents need to understand about pornography and its influence on young people | $15 AUD

Maree Crabbe | It’s Time We talked

Resources to support people with disabilities to learn about sex and relationships.

***FOR ADULT EYES & EARS ONLY*** An essential lecture on the hyper-sexualisation of girls in the media

Gail Dines PhD

A must see talk on the language of gender based violence

Jackson Katz

A powerful talk on raising sons in a culture of toxic masculinity

Jameel Jamil

A must listen podcast to get the lowdown on the clitoris

Yumy Stymes

Watch this inspirational TED talk on why Democracy without clitoracy is a phallusy